starxapple:

okay im really shy about sharing this because it has a lot of my own personal weaknesses in it

but i feel like many people could benefit from this basic format

if you have things in your life that are upsetting you

sometimes using this basic diagram and following it, can help you get perspective and figure out how to help yourself.

fill in the blanks for your own situation and work towards a positive result and i promise it will help you. this is what i do every time im feeling down and it almost always helps me.

figure out what you do that is negative. accept it. and realize what you should do to be positive and work towards it. 

its okay to have insecurities. its normal. we all have them. but the strongest thing a person can do is accept it and try to find positive results in spite of everything.

pbandpurplemayo:

blithebereavement:

Hey guys,

I need some help.

If you know me very well then you know I’m not really a person who’s great about asking when she needs something, so please know that I wouldn’t do this if it wasn’t serious. If you do know me, then you might also know a bit about my relationship with my father. My father is an abusive and mentally ill person, who had been causing my family constant stress, both financially, legally and emotionally, for over a decade, since my mother divorced him.

Today I found out that if my family doesn’t some how come up with $20,000 by the end of May, we’re going to lose our house because of him. The court has declared that he has a legal right to the house, despite the fact that is my mother who has been paying mortgage payments on it for over 10 years.

This may not seem like much in the grand scheme of things, but the repercussions would be enormous on my family. Because of the nasty divorce, my mother’s credit is too bad to buy another house or get a loan to help pay the fee. My brother Mark is going to college this fall, and she’ll have to support him through that (not to mention the fact he’ll have to leave knowing the home he’s lived in since he was four is no longer his). I will have to move home to support my family, giving up year of experience and credit I have at my current restaurant of employment. My youngest sister who already faces bullying at school, and my youngest brother who is only 7, will be homeless without a roof over their heads. That’s him, in the picture, when he was a little younger, playing in our backyard.

If anyone can spare anything to help my family, I would be incredibly grateful. I can’t offer much in return - I can’t draw or create clothes or much of anything. All I can really do is ask for whatever you can spare, or a signal post if you can’t spare anything.

You can click here to donate.

Thank you all for whatever you can do.

Please help by signal boosting and/or donating! I hold Blithe very dear to my heart and I can tell you she’s a fighter, an inspiration to me, and a wonderful friend. 

If you’re so kind to help I’ll draw for you in exchange! Just message me and we can figure something out. 

Thank you so much and let’s all be part of this project!